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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]2 years. The sooner the better if he marries someone who will function like a good mother to my children. They need a mom.[/quote]

A step mom is not a mom.[/quote]

You know what I mean. Don't be so difficult.

And don't marry my widowed husband. The kids need more joy in their lives. :)[/quote]

I would never have respect for a guy who didn't give a crap about the wife that gave him children. Someone who would so callously move on.
My MIL is 68. She as widowed at 52 and she has never looked at a man since. She focused on the grand kids and has many hobbies.[/quote]

This is a horrible attitude. I love my DH, we have been together since we were teens. We have only been with each other. 25 years of marriage.  We have a great sex life. I would not want him to forgo sex (if not marriage) after I am gone.  I want him to be careful who he marries because of kids and finances ...BUT I see no reason why he would not have sex or date people. One is a physical and intimacy need and another is the need to find a life partner. If he finds a worthy woman who loves him and can be good mom to my kids - he should marry her too, if the kids are onboard with this move.

Because I have a great marriage with DH - I want him to live life after I am gone.  He is a loving man, a guy who loves to take care of people around him - he should not live his life alone.[/quote]

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