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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't like my MIL. Valid reasons that would take too long to type.  The relationship is cordial but that is all it will ever be.

But she is a loving and attentive grandmother.  When I was growing up I spent extended time with all of my grandparents without my parents around and as a result I had deep relationships with my grandparents that had nothing to do with my parents.  So that is what I encourage. At the end f the day my MIL doesn't care if I'm there, she wants time with her son and granddaughter.  So I make my obligitory appearances, am pleasant, help with the dishes and what-have-you, then LEAVE.  Be it an afternoon or a week while DH and I are on vacation.  Daughter loves her grandmother.  Grandmother loves her granddaughter.  All is well. [/quote]

Once again a bitchy woman, this time the DIL, chooses to blame the relationship problem all on the other person.  So classic.  So typical.  You're the one who obviously hates her guts, yet somehow in your mind, she's at fault.   There is probably enough fault on both sides.  Don't you realize your MIL can easily sense that you hate her guts?  Try being a little nicer, not in your typical phony just-tolerating-you-for the sake of the grandkids way, but sincerely.[/quote]

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