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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a MIL x 2!  I adore both of my daughters-in-law.  I think they are beautiful (both inside and out), smart, caring, and very good to my sons.  I think of them as daughters.

The mother who cannot step aside and accept the fact that she is no longer the most important person in her son's life will never be good MIL.

The wife who cannot show love and respect towards the women who gave birth to and raised the man she chose to marry will never be a good DIL.

I have never had a cross word with either of my daughters in law.  Similarly, my MIL and I have always had a great relationship.  I find the notion that MILs and DILs can't get along ridiculous.  But then again, I think marriage should be left to those mature enough to manage adult relationships.

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Another MIL here.  This! [/quote]

This is how I aspire to be some day.  I hope DC marries someone nice, and I hope to be nice to them.  Mutual respect is key - if I respect myself (unlike my MIL - who does not respect herself), surely we are half way there!  If they are different than me, so be it, I hope to be positive and accepting, instead of looking for something to complain about at bridge :(  
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