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[quote=Anonymous]I am on BC long term, and i'm only really horny maybe the 3-4 days before my period.  BC plus the stress of life/work have killed my sex drive.  the good thing (for us) is that his libido is not much better than mine.  not to mention even when we do have sex, somehow we've made it so that most of it depends on me - it's up to me to turn myself on AND to turn him on, it's up to me to get myself off, etc.  i've suggested we try something different, and i've asked him to come up with something we could try, but so far, nothing.  yet again, it's up to me.  also he cums so quickly these days that it doesn't feel like it's worth it to even bother trying.  for the most part, when he finishes, it's over, and i really don't feel like giving him another BJ to get him hard again.  honestly dildos and my own fingers feel better and more worth the effort on the precious few days that i do genuinely want it.

yeah, it's dysfunctional, but i don't know what to do.  we've fallen into an unfortunate pattern.  i think he's ok with our sex life, but i'm definitely not.  [/quote]

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