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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Man here. I agree you should be yourself so you can have an authentic relationship. However, while I'm impressed and respect career women, if I'm going to have children, I want to marry a woman who can raise our children first and foremost. I want to be the sole financial provider and I'd like a wife who can take care of me and my family. If she can do it all, great, but I don't want nannies raising our kids. [/quote]

And, if this is your goal, OP, to be a SAHM or to be a WAHM or even to be childless by choice, you need to align yourself with like minded men.  I'm not saying to state these things up front, on a first date, but you need to know what direction you might head into the future and date accordingly.

I'm wanted to be a SAHM ever since I was a very little girl.  I'm 45 and a SAHM of three children.  I have a college degree and had a great career that I left after my first child was born.  I could not have gotten serious with a man who had disdain for SAHMs or who expected me to be the breadwinner or wouldn't have wanted to have children.  All that said, carefully examine what your future goals are keep these in the forefront of your mind when it comes to meeting men.[/quote]

this one is good. [/quote]

Kind of like job hunting, she needed a certain salary (his, not hers) to maintain the lifestyle she required.
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yes she did, BUT it the difference is it seems that she was upfront with that. That's a difference. saves time for everybody. [/quote]

Yes.  In a mercenary kind of way.[/quote]

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