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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sure I will tell my girls to just laugh it off when they are sexually objectified, no one will take them seriously if they complain anyway. Why not just go with the flow? It is probably their fault for wearing makeup and short skirts. When they get date raped I will tell them to think about how they probably teased the guy and led him on.

And people wonder why sexual assault us so prevalent in college! You defenders of this stuff should be seriously ashamed of yourselves.[/quote]

All Sidwell 9th-graders participate in a guidance program that includes extensive discussion of sexuality, including issues related to date rape and consent.  The school takes this quite seriously and it makes a strong impression on the kids.  What the school doesn't do, though, is shame the students for having feelings or thoughts related to sexuality.  Just as it's absurdly prudish to think that girls who wear makeup and short skirts deserve to get raped, it's also absurdly prudish to think that boys who see a girl as sexy are going to turn into rapists.              [/quote]

I would cringe at "sexy" and "sassy", but "hurry up" and "get in line" push it over the line. And, harking back to our high school yearbooks, the "Best Body" was for a single male/female candidate, rather than a list of the beautiful, and also done in good fun with "Most Likely to Succeed," "Funniest," and "Best Hair." I think that makes a difference.[/quote]

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