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Reply to "Red flag(?): no emotion regarding painful past"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just because someone doesn't process a painful childhood the way you think they should doesn't mean they haven't dealt with it. Geez, people. Not all of us define our adult lives by a crappy childhood we old not control. Personally, as a survivor of a crappy childhood I believe it is a sign of good mental health to move on and stop living in the past.[/quote] Please don't simplify things. You should feel some way about this, I am not sure exactly what way, but dammit you should feel some way about it. You cannot say you are in good mental health as a result of moving on. You must realize that you will be a bad parent and you will beat your wife and disappear because of your "crappy" childhood. I would even go so far as to suggest that you voluntarily submit to sterilization so as to assure that your bad "traits" are not passed down to your children. How dare you try and hide your pain. We know the truth about you even if you don't.[/quote]
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