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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm another person who thinks we must share the same relatives. At the least, the same kind of relatives. Even though I think other posters like 14:16 spell out smart and helpful responses, my advice (given how things played out with my family who's done the same thing) is to not engage at all. Don't make any preemptive attempts to set matters straight. Avoid engaging on this issue at all. Nicely make it clear you're busy and not available to babysit. If they're like my family, they're going to try to draw you in with guilt trips (that's where they begin) to using your love of the children to coerce you to bullying you - don't, don't, don't engage.[/quote]
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