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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think a lot of low drive women think they'd want sex more if only the chores were done. I think some low drive women actually would want sex more if the chores were done. But in most cases, I'd say that they're fooling themselves. If sex is a low enough priority, there will *always* be one more thing to do before you're too tired and just want to sleep.

Fact is, when you're attracted enough, people get awfully creative about fitting sex into the schedule. For example, scheduling pressure doesn't seem to prevent people having affairs from having sex before the laundry's done.

If you don't have time for sex, chances are you don't want to have time for sex. [/quote]

This, definitely.  When you're dying to have sex with someone, no load of dishes is going to stand in your way.

Women, think about it this way.  What if your husband said he'd love to compliment you, make you dinner, drink wine with you and then rub your back, but he just has to finish loading the dishwasher, and get the clothes out of the dryer, and vacuum the living room, and then at the end of all that, oh gosh, honey, sorry but now I'm too tired.

I think that is what it's like for men.  Sex is love for a husband, affirmation that you need him, that he's important.

Now, for the women who won't give him what he wants (sex) because he's not giving her what she wants (help with housework) lay out the quid pro quo for him and see if he complies.  Just tell him, I will have sex with you X number of times per week and it will be hot, scorching sex too, but you have to take out the trash every day without me asking, unload the dishwasher and help dc with their homework.  See if that works?[/quote]

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