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I'm not asking anyone to feel sorry for me. Just offering my situation because I thought it related to the topic. I know my marriage sucks but nothing is changing anytime soon. My husband is an ass plain and simple.  He thinks I suck because my sex drive isn't high enough.  He doesn't feel like contributing equally to the household is worth while. Whatever it is what it is. The poster who called me out "do you even give him sex" pissed me off so I had to reply again. [b]Sex 8-12 times a week[/b] seems pretty damn good to me for a married couple with a young child but my husband thinks it's too low. Whatever.

[quote=Anonymous][quote]Yes i am, hence the "he's managed to guilt me into..." a typical night for us at home is BJ, sex 2 to 3 times and I also give him a back rub. And mean while I cook every meal, including making sure there are enough leftovers for his lunch, I am responsible for all the grocery shopping and cleaning. He might take the trash out once or twice a month and do the dishes a couple times a month if that. Our incomes are virtually equal.

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I haven't read the article but in my marriage my DH does virtually nothing. I mean seriously no housework, maybe does the dishes once a month and will take the trash out 2-3 times a month. He's managed to guilt me into thinking we have to have lots of sex for a healthy marriage, even though he doesn't have to help me in any way around the house. He does work more hours a week, although we are both considered full time. My job is more strenuous and the hours suck, he technically clocks more hours (about 5-10 more depending on various things) but can often waste time playing on the Internet, reading, etc. I take part time classes working on my bachelor's degree. I do everything: cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and probably 90% or more of childcare while juggling 36 hours a week of night shift plus college courses. But God forbid if we don't have sex at least 2x a night complete with a BJ prior and a back rub after for him.

Here you complaining about a potential douchebag, but here's the bonus question. Are you giving him lots of sex, including a BJ and a back rub?[/quote]
Why are you complaining? You are an adut, change it. What are we to feel sorry for you b/c you choose to do this. [/quote][/quote]

I think my Vagina would fall off if I had sex that often.[/quote]

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