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Yes i am, hence the "he's managed to guilt me into..."  a typical night for us at home is BJ, sex 2 to 3 times and I also give him a back rub. And mean while I cook every meal, including making sure there are enough leftovers for his lunch, I am responsible for all the grocery shopping and cleaning.  He might take the trash out once or twice a month and do the dishes a couple times a month if that. Our incomes are virtually equal.

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't read the article but in my marriage my DH does virtually nothing.  I mean seriously no housework, maybe does the dishes once a month and will take the trash out 2-3 times a month.  He's managed to guilt me into thinking we have to have lots of sex for a healthy marriage,  even though he doesn't have to help me in any way around the house. He does work more hours a week, although we are both considered full time. My job is more strenuous and the hours suck, he technically clocks more hours (about 5-10 more depending on various things) but can often waste time playing on the Internet,  reading,  etc. I take part time classes working on my bachelor's degree. I do everything: cooking,  cleaning, grocery shopping and probably 90% or more of childcare while juggling 36 hours a week of night shift plus college courses. But God forbid if we don't have sex at least 2x a night complete with a BJ prior and a back rub after for him.  [/quote]

Here you complaining about a potential douchebag, but here's the bonus question. Are you giving him lots of sex, including a BJ and a back rub?[/quote][/quote]

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