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[quote=Anonymous]OP again. Thanks for the words of support (mostly ). When you're home and in the thick of newborn life, it's easy to lose sight of what's ok and what isn't. And I am glad that most of you agree DH has been a douche. This baby wasn't entirely planned, and he is taking it out on me.

I realize we are all sleep deprived but the comments are so grating. And he also has started with underhanded breastfeeding comments too. Our son has had some trouble latching bc I apparently have milk-just-came-in oversupply. So he has been gassy and fussy due to swallowing air. When I ask DH to hold him after I nurse, so I can wash up dh says stuff (just loudly enough so I can overhear) "mommy fills you up with that yucky gassy milk abd then gives you to me...." Or "aw poor baby has to get filled up with gas. Bad mommy"

I'm so sick of this. I love this little babe. Everyone in our family is joyful and celebrating his arrival except DH. I really want to kick him to the curb sometimes. He better get over this. He had 9 mos to get used to the idea, and he agreed that we should have this baby, despite his being a surprise. And yet it's only been two weeks and DH is making these comments, including "this baby was YOUR idea" when he had every bit to do with it.

DH was not such an ass before. But he always did make comments about maternity leave being a "vacation" and asking me "what did you do all day?" Some men only see value in working a 9-5 job as opposed to child rearing. DH is one. I could never SAH and be married to him. He would be relentless. [/quote]

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