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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Reading all these replies... This is why I never want to be married again.  It's so nice to only see my guy once a week.  To think about him.... look forward to it.... save up my energy and then totally attack him.  Only have sex when you WANT to, not because you are obligated, and not because you have to worry about feelings of rejection or the destruction of your relationship if you aren't having sex whenever he wants to.

I knew a woman who told me her husband expected sex every-other night.  I thought, how horrible.  It's like you're a receptacle for a bodily function, like a toilet, instead of passionate love making.  I'd go nuts if I had someone pawing at me all the time like that.

Most men and women who want romance should not live together.  Absence makes the heart grow fonder.  [/quote]

You only want sex once a week? No wonder you didn't like being married.[/quote]

Holy shit right? I've been with my DH 15 years and we still go at it 2-3xs a week with a little stand alone oral thown in there for good measure.  Prior to having kids, we were fucking 2xs a day.

You are wise, DO NOT GET MARRIED AGAIN. You sound low drive.

I feel bad for many of the men posting on here in sexless marriages. I don't think they are the norm though. As I've entered into my late 30s, my drive has increased, so I'm not sure what is going on in these relationships.[/quote]

Actually, I think about sex a lot, and take care of myself many times a week.  Sometimes daily.  But when sex becomes routine and expected, it's a turn off.  And when you're partner is being an unhelpful jerk who doesn't contribute to the marriage in (whatever) ways, it's a turn off.  Real life is a turn off.  Hungrily jumping a guy who I've missed, and who has been missing me all week, is a turn on.  [/quote]

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