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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, how else does one get pregnant? Shall I be explicit here? Oops I can't it's the non-explicit forum. We have talked about getting the family together, but it's no way his mom would leave. We've tried to get her to move in with a girlfriend and that didn't work from either side. While I love her as my MIL and grandmother to our kids it's just no way it can work out. DH is her everything and vise versa, just not mine.   [/quote]

You are so totally irresponsible it's not even funny. I feel sad for your children -- what little common sense you and your ex-husband have. [/quote]

OP here, my children are fine and I'm sure they are better than yours. In life eveything isn't for everybody and at times everything isn't always perfect. What works for us may not work for you. Now go sit out in the cold and freeze. [/quote]
I don't know why everyone is being so hard on OP. Most of us admit that it would be difficult to live with our MIL's. She works, has her own place and a reliable ex-dh. It sounds like this child will be cared for and will know both parents. It's not the conventional arrangement, but this is a country where most kids DON'T live in a two parent home. This child is not the result of a one night stand and all kids have the same father. If it's financially possible, I would see if the MIL could stay in the bungalow house or try to buy a house with a guest house or garage apartment. [/quote]

It's not accurate to say most American children don't live in a two-parent household. At least according to Census data:

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/02/21/us/21census.html?_r=0

Do you have something more recent than that?

The OP didn't come here asking a question. She just posted her situation and lamented that she'd have to give up on the dating scene. So, OP, what is it that you hoped to gain by posting here?[/quote]

NP here. Who cares? OP isn't some teenage mother having a kid with a guy she barely knows and poor. There are plenty of unhappily married couples who have kids despite it not being the right decision. [/quote]

They're not married. They're divorced.[/quote]

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