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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, OP, I am living the exact same thing. It is uncanny how similar our marriages are. I too never felt a spark with my husband but he was good on paper and I thought the sex would get better over time as we got to know each other. I thought he was a good person and that if were both committed and trying, how could it not work? I also didn't want to hurt his feelings and he was so madly in love with me. Turns out he also twists the truth and has always spent more than he makes.

He quit his job the month our twins were born and has been unemployed/ underemployed ever since. He has run up $22K in credit card debt in the past year, on top of mounds of other debt. We live with my parents now, he hates my mom and is rude to her constantly. He blames all this bad behavior on my lack of sexual desire, because he feels unloved by me.

I have been trying for 8 years to build this marriage, support his ego, be affectionate, fake it through sex, but it just won't work. We are now getting divorced. OP, I would reccommend considering divorce before things really go downhill and you are both more bitter. [/quote]

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