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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks. No abuse, but I agree I have intimacy issues which are partially due to my mom hating her body and  recoiling from most physical contact with my dad. I was wrong about level of disgust during sex with H. It was never good, but there was a time I could get through it without cringing. I even sought it out at times but always fantasized I was with someone else. It deteriorated as other stresses in relationship grew - I shouldered more financial burdens of his bad credit, low wages, tuition (at school I have trouble respecting. I do try, but recognize I'm a snob here). As I lost respect for him, I no longer saw him as a viable partner and got increasingly grossed out when thinking of him sexually. He's also a bit awkward in bed and my early pleas for him to do things I liked were not successful.

I do take the blame for not addressing this sooner, but it had to reach a boiling point. It did. Now I'm figuring out what to do and searching hard for evidence I can build respect for and attraction to him.

Thanks again to everyone. I don't feel that continuing this thread with more details of my particular situation would help other readers looking for advice, so I'll stop here to let other threads move on up the list. [/quote]

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