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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gah!  I love my husband - he is a good person, kind, thoughtful, generous, a wonderful friend and father.  But he is SO fucking beta most of the time that it makes me want to scream.  The more success I have in my career, the less patience I have for his status quo.  He is moving up, but not as fast or as far as he could if he would stop being so GD self-deprecating and insecure all the effing time.  I am not perfect in my career but I bust my ass, I'm creative, and most of all I'm confident.  I think I've won jobs precisely because I'm confident and I know I inspire it in others.  I just want him to be the same and stop the damned whining.

The upshot is that I have lost all sexual desire for him.  I want a man who is an equal partner, comfortable folding laundry, doing dishes and handling childcare AND confident and successful in his career AND can sweep me off my feet and make love to me good and hard.  It's just not happening.  I look pretty good, take care of myself, and get noticed.  I'm at the pont where my mind is starting to wander.  I feel guilty about it but hell. . .a girl needs what a girl needs.  I do NOT need a second baby to take care of.

Okay. Rant over. I know I'm not alone.[/quote]

wow - I swear I know who wrote this post.  Even if she didn't, I know the type.  [/quote]

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