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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here I sent the nice message suggested and got back:

"It's your loss, you won't find better"

Yeah, red flags folks...[/quote]

Kudos on sending the message, but those flags aren't very red.  He's just showing he has self respect.  What should he have said in this situation, something self derogatory, like "good move on your part, I'm a total ass clown"?[/quote]

uh? actually they are very bright red. so having self respect in your book means coming out like an idiot ("there is nobody else better than me on earth for you"  - yes, sure) to a woman who let you know in a polite way that she was not interested in dating you? (I guess you think she should have dated him anyway, so not to offend him, or string him along for a while). she did not offend him.

OP, high five to you for spotting the flags immediately. [/quote]

those are red flags? I've gotten responses like that from several men. I didn't take those as red flags. It reads like disappointment expressed childishly.[/quote]

Yes, those are red flags that the guy is a d-bag.
That he's not someone you would want to be in a relationship with.[/quote]

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