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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]With every post the problem becomes harder for you to define. You simply do not like them.[/quote]

THIS, and it's obvious from your posts OP.  What you need to understand is that these are HER children.  They are not yours and you need to stay out of things.  Your wife needs to handle things with them.  Whatever you feel about them YOU have absolutely no experience raising children and do not have any adult children yourself.  I honestly see you as extremely selfish.  You married into a family and don't seem willing to be part of that family.

Now, I'm not saying you need to hand over your wallet/bank account etc...but you need to understand how families work.  This one works in one way and others may or may not.  You either need to deal with it, set realistic boundries [quote]that don't allienate their mother from them (then you are a serious serious bad guy[/quote], although I'm willing to bet they already see you as such), or divorce and get out.  Honestly you seem like you would function better single.[/quote]

Even if he did this, the mother would have to go along with it. Her choice, not him being a bad guy.[/quote]

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