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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Thanks for the replies.

I guess I should start a new thread (and probably will), but let me now explain the reason of my posting this question.  To make a long story short, the new woman in this story is a close family member.  My DH and I prepared our wills some time ago (well before the new woman met the man in this story), and, for a number of reasons, thought she was the only viable candidate to name as guardian of our two daughters should something happen to DH and me.  (Our surviving parents are either too old of with health issues).  At that time, the new woman (single, without kids, but with the support of one of our surviving parents) seemed like a genuinely proper choice.  She has revealed to be a complete different person in the course of her affair with the man,  we don't recognize her anymore.

Obviously, DH and I are reconsidering that decision.  Problem is, we can't identify a new guardian.  We would need to name a friend, as we don't have other family members who could fulfill the role (our extended family is very small).  We don't want to impose such a responsibility in friends who have kids themselves (although we do have life insurance and have set a trust).

Question: is the obvious decision here is to dump her as the potential guardian? Thanks.[/quote]

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