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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"An amicable divorce requires both parties to work together towards the shared goal.

Your entire premise ("should I tell my wife") undermines that from the very start."

Not true.  I had a very amicable divorce, but I planned ahead for months before.  I made lists of all the assets and made sure I knew how to access (and stop the access) of them.  I consulted with several lawyers so I had an excellent idea of my best and worst case scenarios in terms of division of assets, etc.  I then came up with several scenarios of what what I would offer during settlement discussions.  I researched apartments in case I had to move out of the house.  And I saw a therapist to get emotional support, and told several friends as well.

It was only after I'd done all this that I picked a good time to tell my ex, who still doesn't know that I did all this ahead of time.  We then worked out a settlement that was in my best interest, and I was able to move on as best as possible.[/quote]

Please do us a favor and never get married again. You are a loser. [/quote]

god forbid a man takes action to protect himself and be thoughtful in a legal dispute instead of throwing himself at the mercy of his STBX and the courts!

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