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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I sympathize. I think that strip clubs are disrespectful in certain contexts, although I have been myself. I had a bigger problem with my DH possibly doing it before his wedding then him going to his stupid friends' bachelor parties, though. The reasons why men go for bachelor parties are incredibly immature and disrespectful. And I have heard from many guy friends that some messed up shit happens — think groom getting a handjob or blowjob. The issue here is the lying... [b]he's going to lie to you whenever he wants to do something you don't want him to do instead of coming to you with his problem.[/b] I get it that guys are under a lot of pressure, but he could have come to you saying that his hands were tied as he's the best man and the groom wants to go to a strip club. Then you would have to compromise somehow, but hiding it from you is a problem.  [/quote]

he is lying because she is acting irrational and as pp stated seems to be exhausting. This is a control issue for you and the fact that some men go to strip bars during bachelor parties is not "his problem" - it is yours. I'm sure a male stripper has never shown up at a bachelorete party.[/quote]

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