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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cut mine off years ago. best decision ever[/quote] Awesome! So did I. :) [/quote] best feeling ever, right? :wink: [/quote] I wonder if it will feel great when your son and DIL cut you off? Awesome![/quote] No, it would not feel awesome if my DIL and son cut me off. But I don't plan on criticizing DIL or being disrepectful every time I see her either.[/quote] What if she feeds your grandchildren Froot Loops and juice for snacks? Will you still not criticize or provide your two cents? Every generation parents differently it is hard to adapt to being #1 in your child's life (even when they are grown adults) to being the crazy old MIL once he/she gets married. [/quote] NP here. What would I do? Then I would be a guest in their home and keep my mouth shut unless I was explicitly asked to give my two cents. Hell, I do that now..lol. I'm quite while they criticize away. Rolls off now... It is not the MIL or FIL's job to criticize family anymore than it would be to a stranger. It's unpleasant for everyone. It is just rude and immature. Surely, after having a shit-tastic MIL myself, I will know better than to mettle in my children's lives. If asked, I will say what I think. Otherwise: 1.bite my tongue. 2. Drink some wine 3. Bitch about it later to DH. The only exception here is danger to the child. As in-leaving them alone or abuse. [/quote]
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