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[quote=Anonymous]OP your job, your top priority, the single most important thing you need to do is protect your children.

"Dad - I want my daughter to know you, but I do not trust you to be alone with her.  Your interaction with women of all ages continues to be inappropriate.  I will arrange occasions when you can visit or we can go out together as a family but you cannot just drop in, be alone with my children, or in any way go beyond the parameters I am establishing.  If you do, I will immediately stop all contact with you and I will take legal action if necessary.

The fact that you are not respecting my wishes and rules, and that you have apparently spoken critically about me to my daughter, only make my conviction more firm.

If you want any relationship with your grandchildren you need to respect my wishes."

OP - you will never forgive yourself if one of your children is harmed in any way.  (And hard doesn't have to mean overt abuse - it is harmful for children to be put in a position of extreme discomfort with adults or family members.  Fear, uncertainly, lack of control and safety, etc... can all be harmful.)  Your children come first.  Period.

Trust your gut and your strength to protect your children.

Good luck.

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