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[quote=Anonymous]I have found that people with a high tolerance for abuse have been abused.

something from your deep, dark past, PP?

b/c I just love when my boss smacks me on the ass . . .

[quote=Anonymous]You people are the most hysterical bunch of koolaid drinkers I've ever seen.

Cut him off? Call the police??? For a pat on the ass? You should be ashamed of yourselves. No pat on the ass ever killed anyone, but sending an elderly loving grandfather through legal hell and possibly to prison probably would.

This is OP's FATHER we're talking about. Not some fellow customer at the coffee shop. She can love the sinner and hate the sin. She can make sure her kids aren't alone with him for any length of time. She can give him the stinkeye or tell him off ("Dad, cut it out, that's inappropriate") if she observes anything untoward. She can teach her kids to speak up loudly if they're ever uncomfortable. But to call the police with accusations of rape (where did that even come from??) is straight up cruel. It's like you people have no notion of nuance. That generation and their flexible boundaries will be gone soon, taking with them the good and the bad. We need to enjoy the good while they're still with us.

Now if OP comes back and says that by "fondled" she really meant "penetrated", then we're in a different ballpark. But I have a hard time believing that idle bitching on the part of women at work is anything but annoying dirty old man behavior. Certainly not worth destroying what's left of a father's life. [/quote][/quote]

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