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[quote=Anonymous]Sometimes the effects of a traumatic experience like losing a parent don't show up until well into the teen years. Having the tweens involved in activities that they will hopefully continue through high school is a great way to head off resentments about the new family structure or grief and depression that can get worse after puberty. The tween years are so short...if I were you, OP, I would just let DH and kids keep making the decisions and not rock the boat. Ultimately keeping them active will be good for them. Even though its not fair not to be part of these decisions, maybe just going along with things for the sake of peace is best. The time will fly by and in the meantime you and DH can get some counseling, and maybe some family counseling, to work on some of these concerns. But I would not make a big deal right now, just work on it a little at a time and let the kids continue what they are involved in. [/quote]
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