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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To the PP in the physically and emotionally dead marriage, why do you stay? Serious question. Your kids would be fine in a divorce. And, why do you treat the woman you say is so incredible so badly? I don't judge you for seeking happiness outside the marriage. Once you've found it, why not hold it close and have all the bennifits of being a couple? Your spouse (and hers) can t ake care of themselves. What is the rationale for staying? I'd truly like to know.[/quote]

My kids have been the main reason that I have stayed married.  I fear what my DW would become and how she would treat our kids if I divorced her.  The person that I am involved with.. She is in a sexless/affection less marriage, but they co-parent a lot better than my DW and I.  She has said that she is waiting for her kids to get into college.  We have only been in this type of relationship for about 3 months.  As our relationship gets stronger, she may decide not wait that long.  Overall the situation is a lot more complicated than I am sharing...  Since being in this relationship, I no longer put up with my DW putting me down and belittling main front of the kids.  And my DW has ch aged for the better, but she is still cold and distant to me.  My DW is not a happy person.  It seems like all of her siblings have similar issues....   [/quote]

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