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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The Thanksgiving association may not matter so much to your husband or you but now your son will always associate the Thanksgiving holiday with his family breaking into pieces.

Did you do counseling or did you just decide today to separate. Have you had conversations about separating?

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What was my other option?  Make a meal and say "Son and I are having Thanksgiving dinner at 5 if you want to join us?"  Who has to ask their husband that?  And his response would have been "Why?  I told you we shouldn't plan anything."  Worse that way for our son, no?  I thought through the options.  And somehow this is all on me and my decisions.  Where is he in all if this?  A phantom.  [/quote]

The Thanksgiving association DOES matter to me.  Tell me what I should have done?  Begged him to have a meal together as a family?  What were my choices?  Really...I don't know.  There were no good ones.  I had to choose at least being together with my son for a quiet weekend.[/quote]

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