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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not a lawyer. My understanding is that without a court order AND you are still married, he can take your child out of state legally.

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This is OP - yes I have read that, which is why I am concerned. He may just be posturing, but if he goes off the deep end, who knows what he would do. Hence, why I'm wondering if I should talk to a lawyer about this.
I'm worried that once I start bringing up the - "if you refuse counseling then we need to separate"- I"m afraid he will just lose it and decide to take our child out of state to his parents. I highly doubt his parents would be OK with this. 
They are sane and caring people. I can't imagine his mother or father being on board with their son taking his child away from its mother. In reality, I really can't imagine him doing this at all. I think he says these things to hurt me, and is bluffing. 
But I'd rather not guess when it comes to something like this. People do stupid things when they are not in their right mind. Our child is the only thing he has any kind of control over.[/quote]

Then don't push him. It sounds like you need to make up your mind. I personally would not waste more money in counseling.

If you decide to leave, you need to do it the Katie Holmes way.

If you decide to stay, then suck it up and stop badgering him about it.

Fighting will not help anything and I really think it brings bad energy. [/quote]

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