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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. So after my DH closed down this friendship, this woman contacted him again (2 or so weeks later) and my DH talked to her. What is up with her? He assures me that she was just 'checking in". But why does she have to check in after he had told her i was not comfortable with their friendship?[/quote]

If he told her to stay away and she violated that to "check in," she did the wrong thing. But he also did the wrong thing if he engaged; it's easy enough to ignore a text or cut a phone call short. She is probably testing the boundaries to see how serious he is about cutting off contact. However, it does take two to keep in touch, so if they're still talking, they're BOTH at fault. There is also no such thing as a "home wrecker." Even if the person outside the marriage is the assertive one and initiates the flirting, that's not exactly admirable behavior, but it takes two people to keep going with it.

Something isn't sitting right with me here, though. Earlier in this thread, everything sounded totally reasonable. The original question and the original way the OP and her DH handled it all sounded fine. But then the OP is wallowing and asking about dredging it up and contacting the woman herself, now the woman has contacted the husband again....and suddenly it's this drama fest.

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