Reply to Would you be upset with your husband over this?

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Would you be upset with your husband over this?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Newsflash people marriage is not only about sex. I have a truly great marriage, solid and healthy as a rock. But we have sex maybe 2-5 times a month. We are both fine with that, if either of us wanted it more we would say so. That said, there have been months where we haven't had sex or maybe only 1 or 2 times. It did not change the dynamic at all, we are each others best friend and this works for us. [b]Any marriage that would fail due to lack of sex was never a strong one to begin with[/b], and I believe that with every ounce of my being.[/quote]

This x 1,000.[/quote]

I used to think this was true but now I am starting to realize that some people just put a lot of importance on sex. Maybe they see it as a way to express love and romance, and without it, what's the point? Maybe they need it often to feel alive? I don't know because it's not that important to me personally but that doesn't mean that people who rate it differently than I do are wrong. It's great that you and your DH are on the same page about it. But for couples who aren't, yes, lack of sex can be a big, big issue, eventually leading to divorce.[/quote]

Are you over 30? Didn't you ever date someone to whom sex was very important?  It is very important to me for all of the reasons you list above, and more. What else makes you feel as alive as a sexual encounter?  How do you express love and romance?[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics