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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Newsflash people marriage is not only about sex. I have a truly great marriage, solid and healthy as a rock. But we have sex maybe 2-5 times a month. We are both fine with that, if either of us wanted it more we would say so. That said, there have been months where we haven't had sex or maybe only 1 or 2 times. It did not change the dynamic at all, we are each others best friend and this works for us. [b]Any marriage that would fail due to lack of sex was never a strong one to begin with[/b], and I believe that with every ounce of my being.[/quote]

This x 1,000.[/quote]

This NOT x 1,000. We have a great marriage in every other way. But my husband's very low libido is heading us towards divorce. Sex is a big part of a relationship, and I won't sacrifice this part of my being to stay with him. You are in a relationship where your sex drive matches up, which is great for you guys. How can you know how it would feel to be in another kid, where someone wants nothing to do with you physically, but enjoys your company? It feels awful, and will likely end our marriage which is a tragedy. If you haven't been there, you can't know. [/quote]

Thank you for this.  The PP just doesn't get it.  If both partners have the same (low or high) sex drive, there's no issue.  The marriage doesn't fail because of "lack of sex," it fails because of lack of consideration for each other's feelings.  The PP's smug attitude would not help her in a marriage to a man with different needs than her husband allegedly has.[/quote]

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