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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you still feel attracted to him physically, or you don't think you need physical contact in general (not just from him)? Have you gone for a checkup to rule out potential reasons why you might not be feeling like you need physical contact? Depression, perhaps? At some point, you're going to have to dig a little deeper and have some frank talks with him about whether this is in fact a sustainable relationship if neither you nor he is willing to put in the effort.[/quote]

I am not attracted to him, but not repulsed, either. I like hugs and kisses (but could do without), but prefer to sleep in pj's and would love to have own blanket (but maintain sleeping under same blanket for H's sake). I sometimes feel that I was too close first to H and then the baby when he was younger, that I just want to sleep alone- it's overload!
Also, we do bedtime snuggles and morning snuggles with my son- I think this satisfies it partially...H for some reason is not into snuggles with DS at all. 
As for purely sexual contact, I am ashamed to say I started to prefer masturbation to have an orgasm, and I am having vivid dreams of other men, despite the fact that we do have sex with H a couple times a week... It's almost like its too much of a drag to do it with H? 
I wonder if its hormonal- but then I wouldn't be having all those dreams? 
In short, I am interested in sex but much less than before and maybe not with H :([/quote]

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