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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP: Thanks everyone. I do admit I suck at making friends. I do have friends but not many people know both of us. The witness do need to know both of us and there are limited people that do.

He is not contesting the divorce. He can simply care less. I don't want to ask him for many reasons. What's more, since I file first I am the plaintiff and all the witness questions are related how well the witness know me, not him.

I enjoy being alone and I find socializing exhausting. I do not hang out with couple friends even when we were married because I do not enjoy going out with my ex. It is not a crime right?

My ex has spent my child's college savings on strip clubs. He's cashing 401k to go to Las Vegas. He spends every night in the local clubs and bars and somehow I am the evil monster.

I work full time. I take care of my child all by myself financially, physically, and in every way shape or form. My crime is that I do not have a social life. I do not have a close relationship with anyone really that I feel I can impose this on them. I am the type who would rather walk a mile after surgery than asking for help. I don't think I deserve the flame.

I grew up in Asia and my real friends are there. I have no family here except my child. It's hard enough to be a single mom. I just want to divorce him because he's racking up serious debt and I am very worried it may affect me. Where are we supposed to live if we lose the house?

I do have a lawyer but a witness is required by law. I never thought the hardest part is finding a witness. They don't have to take sides. Just confirm basic facts. That is all.

What makes me mad is that this person sent me an email telling me that he loves my child like his own. Give me a break. He does not get to be the nice guy. He is telling me that he never asks about my child's home life when my kid's dad lives at his house for 3 years?

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You could have saved up in three years to fly a family member over and sign the dang form and go back home at this point.[/quote]

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