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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I already responded, but I really want to reiterate that what you are doing is absolutely wrong.  You should not be asking his relatives.  They are not your friends, they are his relatives.  You are divorcing, they are on his side, stop trying to change that.  It just puts them in an awful position and makes you look like a moron.  Find someone, anyone, who knows that you have not lived with him for the past year, and ask them to be a witness.  And, most importantly, learn how to treat people and get some friends.[/quote]

NP here. I don't understand how it would put anyone in a bad position just to confirm that the soon-to-be-ex doesn't live with this woman anymore. How is that taking sides? [/quote]

Because like it or not, the dynamics between family members (especially divorcing family members) are more complex than just signing a piece of paper.  While it may be confirming facts, others in the family may perceive it as taking sides.[/quote]

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