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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't read this whole thread but my take is that everyone wants to redshirt because they think it will give their child an advantage. In short, being older/bigger gives you an advantage over your peers that accumulates over time and builds confidence and therefore makes child more successful later in life. I think most of this notion comes from Malcolm Gladwell's book Outliers. I also think it's total crap - just another way for hyper DC parents to try and give their kids a competitive advantage. FWIW, my DS is an August birthday and one of the youngest in his class. He's thriving - great feedback from teachers at conferences, loves school, lots of friends, no problems at all. [/quote] My child waited a year due to developmental issues - I wasn't looking for an "advantage" for her. I was looking for her to be at the same level as everyone else (rather than behind). That said and she is still struggling a bit. But if you met her - you may not realize all of this and might judge us for holding her back. Her issues are not immediately obvious and a lot of them have resolved over time. I think its an individual decision and you can't generalize.[/quote] I'm the PP you quoted and I am genuinely curious - what does "development issues" mean? I don't need to know about your child specifically but just trying to understand the range of non-academic issues that might lead one to redshirt. [/quote]
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