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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your husband is a complete asshole and I would be furious.

It's one thing to have issues between the two of you, but what kind of grown man doesn't get it together to take care of a child and leaves him sitting in a dirty diaper to watch TV while he falls asleep?

Pathetic and unacceptable.

If your husband can't or refuses to recognize what a big deal this is and agree to make some changes, then I think you've got a bigger issue to deal with.  I could not stay married to a person like this.  [b]Do you have ANY respect for him[/b]?[/quote]

Honesly, I don't have much respect for him anymore.  I fear though, if I divorce, he will be neglectful like this during the times he has DS, and something bad will happen to DS.  Everything I start thinking about divorce, I can't help thinking about that.  [/quote]

My advice...don't have a second child.  (Please, please, please.)  Wait until your DS is old enough to somewhat fend for himself.  By the time he's 5ish, he will at least be able to reliably tend to his physical needs and speak up for himself a bit more.  Then you leave your husband.

Good luck.[/quote]

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