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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is amazing to me that women think that cooking, doing laundry and sex is the same as painting a vent cover. I am a DH and I do plenty of stuff around the house.  My DW will never work out in the yard and she would never put trash on the curb or anything like that. I do all that stuff with no problem.  But if my DW ever said that she was witholding sex or not cooking because I did not do some obscure project that she wanted done, things with go South in a hurry.  That is manipulation on the highest level.  He is a grown ass man, he does not have to do EVERYTHING you want.  I see why so many marriages are in trouble.  [/quote]

Same here.  Signed a wife.   Dh and I split up chores and a lot is dependent on what we see as important and that we have a specific way we like it to get done.  I like a clutter free bedroom whereas DH doesn't care, so I clean the bedroom and pick up his stuff.   Dh likes the yard a certain way so he does all hardworking while I maintain the pool since DH doesn't use it.   Pick and choose OP.  Get your husband to do things that he likely cares about like clean laundry, grocery shopping, clean dishes etc.  And have him do those things.  You can do the valences and vent covers and things you think are important.   Just make sure that you don't get on his case if he does it a different way than you or if he doesn't do it exactly when you think it should he done.  [/quote]

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