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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you for your responses. Yes, it was planned, but i didn't know about the strip club part of it until last night, even though he has known the whole time. It is not his brother, it is my sisters fiance. And, upon finding out about the strip club, I told him how it made me feel. I told him that I felt horrible about my body and that it made me jealous (and I am the least jealous person ever) and sad. I was very honest. He's still going. The reason I posted on here was to question the validity of my feelings? Knowing all of these things, is it valid to be so sad about this? I feel like I can't breathe.[/quote]

I wouldn't say that your feelings are invalid, but. . . what you feel bad about is YOU. I suspect that even if he didn't go to the strip club, you'd be feeling bad about your body and jealous that he will be inevitably be seeing more physically attractive women. YOU need to get over this. I don't think it's fair (or effective) to ask him to avoid activities that you were previously OK with because you are feeling bad about yourself. Maybe think about what, if anything, your husband could do to support your efforts to feel better about yourself? Maybe give you more personal time to work out or get a pedicure/haircut? Maybe set aside more couple time? Cook/order healthy meals for you guys to eat together? [/quote]

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