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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At any point in trip planning did your husband say you should go? Not that you need "permission" but I know if DH had planned a trip that I was opposed to for a reason other than"because I said so" I'd be beyond pissed. I'm not excusing his behavior or blaming you, just trying to understand the situation and perhaps trigger for his rage.[/quote] He agreed to it at first, though I knew he was not happy about it. Perhaps at that point I should have decided not to pursue. For me, I think, I felt like I had been walking on eggshells for years. Friends have fallen away because he always constructs reasons why I cannot do things with other people, or makes it so unpleasant that I don't want to. For example, I will go out to dinner with someone. After an hour, he will start calling and texting every 10 minutes checking on whether I am done, when I am coming home, etc. It is embarrassing for me to have my friends see me engaging in submissive behavior so I have stopped making plans. [/quote]
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