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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You love kids but aren't sure if you want them?[/quote]

I'm also a nanny and I know I don't want kids. It's really quite simple. I like kids and enjoy spending time with them and having an impact on their lives, but it's the greatest feeling in the world coming home to my DH and pup at the end of the day and being able to just relax and do whatever the hell we want. I'm sick of the assumption people make that just because I'm a nanny my life plans include having kids and becoming a sahm. [/quote]

I'm also a nanny and am considering not having children as well. What people don't realize is we truly understand what a sacrifice it is to have children and raise them well. It is 18+ years of putting another life before your own, constantly worrying about their future and if you made the right choices. When you haven't felt that pressure the idea of children is wonderful and the fantasy of cute giggling babies is all you embrace. After spending 50-60 with a screaming teething baby and your bubble is burst. You cannot look at children on the same light. I love being with children but the responsibility that every choice you make effects your child is something I rather not worry about.[/quote]

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