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[quote=Anonymous]Your kid, your rules. If she won't obey your rules, find a caregiver who will. You may have to pay to find one, however. I don't think this is some harmless oversight. She is being intentionally sneaky. Maybe she doesn't agree with your diet choices for your child. Maybe she thinks, "give the kid some freaking candy for goodness sakes". Doesn't matter why. Let her know that if she continues to break the rules about your child's diet, she will no longer be a caregiver for your child. Obviously grandma is welcome to visit YOU at your home any time to see DC (when you are home) but she won't have DC alone anymore. And then follow through. You've got a lot to learn about communicating clear expectations and insisting that your boundaries be respected now that you are a parent. Get used to it. Sometimes you have to do things that make you uncomfortable for the sake of your child. If you truly believe the diet is that important - make it happen.[/quote]
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