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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's a shame that when a woman stands up for herself as a strong and independent [u]woman[/u], she is criticized for her actions and/or beliefs. For someone to say a woman is not into commitment just because she doesn't think it is right to stick by a guy who cheated on her is just wrong. [b]Wrong!![/b] :cry: In this society it is always okay for the man to be independent, strong-willed as well as outspoken. He is regarded as a confident and strong man. Yet if a woman acts in such a manner, she is torn to shreds. Not fair. So what if a woman thinks it is unacceptable to stand by a man who cheated on her? I say, more power to her. Good for her. Having this belief does not mean she is not fully committed to her family and doesn't truly have the maturity to understand how a real relationship works. Once a man cheats on a woman, the [u]dynamics[/u] change big time. It is completely unfair to expect a woman to just adapt to the new dynamics just because she has a child and should put her feelings aside and look out for the child's best interest. When OP's husband cheated on her, he also cheated his child out on a loving and stable family. Why can't anyone see this??!![/quote]
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