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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here: the thing is that I have ZERO interest in getting back together with him. Yes, there are still some feelings there but a lot happened in our relationship to make me not want that again. We were together for almost 6 years so I think there will always be feelings there.

Also, I truly do feel like she ruined him and I. YES, it is his fault also..more then hers....however, when I found out about her, I was willing to work through it. We tried for a month and I couldn't get past that. I was there when he called her saying that him and I were together and he couldn't talk to her. I was also there all the times she kept texting and calling him asking for him to "just please respond". She knew that he was with me and that we were trying to work on things but she wouldn't give up. I blame her for us officially ending after that month.

Also, I know it makes me sound like a horrible person but I can't be the only one who has these thoughts and happiness. I mean, sure he has a gf now that he "left me for" but she's clearly not making him happy and that makes me feel pretty darn good after what she did to me.[/quote]

I don't know why I am bothering.

You do not have "zero" interest. If you had "zero" interest, you would not be entertaining the idea of going to see him, period. You would not be considering sending him NAKED PICTURES. Be honest with yourself abotu your feelings.

If you were willing to work things out when you found out about her, and you were unable to do that, then YOU are more responsible for your break up than she was. Order of responsibility goes like this: him (for doing the cheating), you (for saying you'd work it out and being unable to do that) and then her (for being essentially in the wrong place at the wrong time). He could have blocked her number. He did not do that. If he had really wanted her to leave him alone, there are ways to make that happen.  Personally, I recommend that YOU exercise some of those ways now - block his number with your cell phone company, delete him on whatever social media you use, DO NOT CONTACT HIM.

You are entitled to your feelings of pleasure in someone else's unhappiness, buit it doesn't make it a good idea for you to remain in contact with someone who betrayed you this way. If you feel like fantasizing about ruining her life the way that she ruined yours will help you to heal and move on, then by all means, fantasize away. What you are doing right now goes a step further and I would strongly encourage you to break off all contact with this man.[/quote]

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