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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, this cousin is really immature.  I would never presume to bring an overnight male guest into a family member's home, especially when I've been specifically told that my boyfriend is not welcome!

I'm not a prude at all, but if I opened up my home to a college-aged relative, I would not be cool with overnight guests, period.  It's enough to make my home open to another person.  I'm not inviting in a troop of their friends or lovers.

If I were you, I would be really blunt with this cousin and let her know that it was completely disrespectful, unappreciative, and uncool that she went against the only guideline you gave her.  She trespassed on your generosity.  If you can tolerate her presence, I'd say she needs to make plans to move out by at least a month before the baby is due, but that if she brings over a guest again, that she'd need to leave immediately.

(Seriously, she should be paying at least token rent.  Why are we coddling all these young adults these days?  No wonder they act like children!)[/quote]

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