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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH just came home from the hospital after bypass surgery a few weeks back.  He told me today that if I continue to create the stress on him I created before the surgery about the house, my career vs. his, child care, etc. that he wants a divorce.  He says he doesn't want me to "kill" him.  I am really upset b/c I was so worried about him easing up to, during and after the surgery that I feel he is being unappreciative.  When I asked him what he means by stress I create, he said have related an atmosphere of "emotional oppression" in the household where only my feeling my feelings matter, not his nor our children's.  I really don't understand what he means.  He said I need to get therapy myself and we also need it as a family.  I do not believe in therapy or hanging out my feelings to a total stranger. Am I really going something wrong, is he having some sort of crisis or is he just being a jerk?[/quote]

It doesn't matter if you are right or wrong.  A relationship takes two committed partners in order to work.  He has told you his level of commitment is get counseling or he is out.  You have to decide if you dislike counseling so much that you are willing to scrap the relationship over it.  [/quote]

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