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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]  Get some marriage counseling with someone who practices EFT Couples or Imago to address any underlying unmet needs.  I agree with others that DH acted on this because of some unmet desire.  Why this came up could be for a million reasons.  3 kids is a constant muddle of putting your needs aside and being responsible.  People aren't perfect and they make mistakes.   Do the best you can to repair things and move on.  This wasn't another woman he was in love with, just hot sex.   [/quote]

I think only one other person said unmet desires.  And you are both entirely ignorant as to what causes infidelity.

That said, OP gets to choose whether to save her marriage.  I personally agree that she should try to do so because (a) her DH is remorseful and wants to do the right thing and (b) there are three children involved.  I also agree that this kind of infidelity is not nearly as bad as when the spouse actually falls in love with someone else.  However, let's not pretend that this is no big deal.  Counseling, stat.[/quote]

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