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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, instead of focusing on your brother, focus on the kids.  Why not send a few time a year care packages with clothing for each of the kids and a few new toys.  Or, gift cards for each for new shoes.  You can help buy being a great aunt.  We have several friends who send us a bunch of outfits and a few toys just randomly (and at birthday and christmas) - not even anything elaborate but its nice to know they are thinking of us.  Every six months or so, one in particular asks the sizing and what we need/want.  When in doubt, she'll guess and buy the next size up so I can put it away for next year.  Its not the actual stuff, but the thought I appreciate.  Plus, who doesn't love getting packages.[/quote]

People who pride themselves in taking care of their families themselves don't want your care packages.  Being a great aunt does not mean buying shoes and clothes for your niece/nephew.  Spend time with the kids but don't humiliate their hard-working parents unless you are asked for help. [/quote]

Seriously?   We are very comfortable and not struggling at all. Love the gifts.  It is not about the money but the thought.   [/quote]

Yes, seriously. OP's brother has made his feelings clear.[/quote]

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