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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To above. I don't know about you but if I told my husband this, he would go into cardiac arrest while wanting to divorce me It would totally destroy him. I could never ever tell him such a thing. I wish it was different, but its not, cannot speak for OP but think there are many spouses that cannot be honest in this way to their husband or wife. I know for us it would never work out.

Advice to OP, stay away. Bring your kids to the meeting if you are committed to using this architect and do not ever be alone with him while you feel that kind of attraction. I had a similar situation with my daughters orthodontist and finally had to stop using him. He was very interested in me and made it clear and it just became too uncomfortable (and tempting)![/quote]

Do you think you both understand that there are attractions happening, but silently agree to never acknowledge it? Or are you each pretending never to be attracted to someone else? I suppose I can understand the former, but not the latter.  Attractions that are never discussed, even jokingly, are dangerous. You may be able to suppress them but how do you know your partner can? Why take chances on that?

I also think that hubs has a right to know that OP is having boredom issues so that he has the opportunity to make improvements. [/quote]

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