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[quote=Anonymous]I understand your plight, I have been married about 4 years and when we are connected it's awesome but when we disconnect it's hell. She has a way of making me feel like I never measure up, can never do enough, I admit I have shortcomings but doesn't everyone? I tend to use Facebook as a device to let my anger and frustration out and I even get chastised for that, so in the end I have come to this conclusion. Sometimes in life your mind, your tolerance and limits are tested by the very ones closest to you or the one very person that you thought through thick and thin they would have your back. I mean at times some people have the power over you to make you question the meaning of life, of marriage or even what have you done in your life to merit the pain and suffering that you have endured. I came to this conclusion at 1:43AM this morning, however along with that realization came the knowledge that I can't worry about anyone else because I have to first look at myself every morning when God gives me breath to wake up. So in the end one might take into consideration what anyone will tell them or when they give thier own thoughts about situations but in the end, for real it means nothing because those very same people or person will be judged just as I will be judged when my peanut shaped head is placed into the wallnut overcoat also known as a casket. I have so many blessings that I refuse to be brouught down by groups of people or a person with a Napoleon Complex. Yes thank you for all you have done, thank you very very much, however don't think that your crap doesn't stink, don't think that you walk on water cause you don't. Whatever chemical imbalances you have or whatever mental turmoil your going through is based on decisions made in your life well before I EVER CAME ALONG, and whatever you say compared to what you had a few years ago compared to what you have now, you have been blessed 10 times over, so don't let one of the seven deadliest sins ruin you. So to you I love you with all that I am, but I love mysef more, always have and always will, but you will no longer steal my joy or cause me to take my eye off the big picture. A season, a reason or a lifetime, choices will always have to be made, sometimes easy and sometimes incredibly hard....................[/quote]
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